the way people get things done
No, most people can't manage themselves well enough to excel in the  way you need them to, certainly not immediately. But those that can (or  those that can learn to) are able to produce amazing results, far better  than we ever could have bullied them into. They turn into linchpins,  solving problems you didn't even realize you had. A new generation of  leaders is created... 
And it lasts a lifetime.
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