this phrase - less helpful @ddmeyer the tag to his blog name...
is so key.. and since it comes up time and again.. in many different flavors.. i have to hugely applaud Dan here.. for coming up with such a graceful way of stating it.
because we do need grace. we really do all want to be good. no more bashing. (me included)
cool addition to jan 2010 and april 2009
july 2010 from @wendydrexler and @ruthhoward while at least one of them is listening live to alan november:
nice - @WendyDrexler: @RuthHoward
teacher as facilitator
as kids have the pleasure
of finding things out..(feynman) http://bit.ly/cL5F2J
(link to updated hole in the wall)
if we were (oh if we could only be) less helpful...
would we have less than 90% of pop wanting rules to follow, not able to make their next move till they get that list of instruction?
would we have less bashing of each other and more doing things that matter?
what if we were less helpful at instructing and more helpful at connecting?